I believe my husband is an awesome dad – when he is around and when he is not drinking.
I want to tell him” “You are letting the team down. I am here for our kids, putting in the work with them, and you are off drinking. I want you to be here bringing your awesome self to our family and showing up as our team mate. Get your drinking under control as I will not put up with it as my husband or the father of my children.”