Husband not listening…


I know that’s a T. My husband doesn’t listen. He listens, but only for about 3-5 minutes. He will ask me to talk to him, tell him how I feel, open up to him… then I start doing that and just as I’m getting warmed up after 2-3 minutes he says ‘OK, well I gotta go to work!” Then, he gets up and leaves even though I’m visibly still upset (and now even more so and he sees this and acknowledges this). This is NOT listening to me. It’s actually worse than not asking me at all. I know I have a manual on this and he is definitely not following it. I think the worst part about it is that my brain keeps telling me to leave him. But I feel like I don’t have a good enough reason.