Husband’s Manual


Hi Brooke.

I need help coming up with a new thought to think when my husband plays computer games.

I’ve been telling myself that he can do whatever he wants to do, but I’m noticing that this is one of those thoughts that sounds good because I’m trying to not have a manual for him, but it’s not working because I still get angry that he is wasting his life. Literally hours every day. I hate it because his job is not his dream job and I know if he applied himself to what he really loves doing as a hobby, it could turn into a full-time job.

I’ve tried being curious with the thought, I wonder why he thinks he needs to do that so much, but knowing how the brain works and addiction of gaming, it’s not working.

This week I am continuing my July homework working with feeling more abundant instead of lack.

Any thoughts along these lines would be appreciated!