The feedback I got on a recent post was this –

What if your husband’s only reason for existence is for you to love him? What thoughts would that leave for your brain to manage?

Well, here is what my brain came up with…

Well, that is lame.
I have to do everything then. Everything.
I’m the one who has to keep changing; it isn’t fair.

This leads me to this…..

Yes, it is lame. And I suspect I create lame.
Yes, I do have to do everything – so I’d better choose wisely.
And I’m the one who has to keep changing – and damn straight; it is why I have the results I do. So let’s keep changing.

And it is all damn uncomfortable right now.
Keeping going