Husbands Thoughts And Feelings

As I’ve been on this journey of personal discovery, I often feel as though my husband is not evolving. I am always hopeful that some of my growth will help him in some way…maybe it does but I’m not sure. Last night he unleashed some sad feelings, a lot of them accusatory of me ‘you don’t like to cuddle…you’re always stressed…etc). I felt that all of these thoughts he was having were totally coming from his own head and not reality. I’m learning how to re work my thoughts and feelings through the model. How can I help my husband do the same? I know I can’t control what he does but the idea of him feeling this way is far from ideal