Hello amazing coach,
Thank you for your response. I have just read it. I found this really helpful, “You are blaming your brother for how you act”. Thank you SO much for that.
It is true (although that is a thought, though, and not a fact 😉 .
I found your comment really liberating because I am blaming my brother for how I act. This is exactly what I am doing, and it is exactly what is making me feel so uncomfortable.
Thanks so much, I found it so freeing.
If I stop blaming my brother for how I act that is really great because it opens up all sorts of possibilities in my mind. Whereas I had felt very closed down.
I will go and work on the rest of what you had said , especially around “What if it’s not possible for you to mess this up?”