I am jealous of my daughter’s relationship with her dad


Hello,
I am ashamed to say I am jealous of my daughter’s relationship with her Dad, my ex-husband, and I want to feel differently. My daughter is home from school during her winter break. I was hoping to spend a lot of time with her, but she has chosen to stay with her dad. She has come over, but she always ends up leaving shortly after arriving to go somewhere with her dad. I want to be happy she gets along with her dad, he is a wonderful dad and person, but I am so jealous and I show up so desperate and needy. I know this may contribute to her not wanting to spend time with me, but I can’t help myself. I would love suggestions to help change this negative thought pattern and actions.
Thanks so much