I Can’t Stop Comparing Myself

Hi Coaches!

I have improved a lot in how I compare myself to others, but there is one person, a former colleague who became a manager in another firm, who is successful with her business, she has 2 perfect kids, the perfect husband, and perhaps another baby (I lost hope for an other baby by my own)…. that I envy.
I envy her, I question her skills thinking I’m better, I’m ashamed that I’m thinking that, I think she has an aura that I might not have.  I understand that these are my own thoughts that make me doubt because of a lack of confidence but how to get rid of them.