Thanks for the reply – let me run a new model on the judgmental thoughts.

C -Playground child pushes my daughter
T -His parents should discipline him
F -Judgmental
A – Protect my daughter; I discipline him but feel insecure about it, then ruminate over that – worry they’ll judge me for it. Judge me for not stepping in to discipline earlier. Avoid hanging out with them in the future. In a bad mood when they leave. Ruminate and talk to his parents about how to deal with the situation.
R – not sure on my R here?