I Know What I Should Do, But I Just Can’t Seem to Be Able To.

My brother is dating a woman whose parents are his age. He is 51 and she is in her early 20’s. I am judging, annoyed, disgusted and angry. His first wife, whom he left, was 16 years younger than he was. My parents seem to be okay with it, but they were not okay when I brought a guy home who was 12 years older than I was when I was dating. The double standard is a huge annoyance!

I know ultimately that I should be letting everyone behave as they will and accept everyone for their actions and who they are, but I just can’t get there.

Thank you for your help!