I shouldn’t have to

I have an issue with this thought:
“I shouldn’t have to pick up my husband’s clothes.”
I can’t come up with another thought to think because I truly believe I shouldn’t have to do it. And when I try to change the thought to allowing him to just be himself and leave the clothes on the floor it comes to “I shouldn’t have to live like this” how am I supposed to be okay with a dirty house and a dirty husband?