I chose a special topic to speak to my husband at lunch and I was expecting him to show interest.
C I speak about XYZ to my husband at lunch
T He is not interested
A ask him if he is interested, says he doesn’t seem interested, ruminate, criticize him
R I’m not interested in this relationship anymore
The thing is, I’m always waiting for my husband to show MORE. More interest, more enthusiasm, to be more demonstrative, to say I love you, to ask questions… He is not like that. Why am I still expecting it and being upset?
And, I don’t see the use to speak to him if he doesn’t show interest. So, I’m really moving very fast to: “this is no use, I should leave, this relationship is not good”.
Is it dramatizing?