I think I want a divorce

C- My husband reads books about BPD because he believes I have the Disorder, even though I have not been diagnosed. He said “It’s too understand you better.”
T – You can’t understand me better when you are reading lies about me.
F- betrayed
A – Stay away from him
R – Maybe: I don’t understand him?

I don’t want to be in a marriage where the person I have committed myself to believes that I have a mental disorder and continues to treat me as such. Every time he learns something new in the book he categorizes me in there. I want someone that loves me for me and doesn’t have to make it mean that something is wrong with me every time I have an emotion that he can’t handle.