I want to scan for evidence that my husband loves me.

c-Husband says sweet things to our 5 year old daughter that he used to say to me.
t-I can’t see him ever saying those sweet things to me again. Its been 5 years of this! I want a different partner.
F- disregarded
A-I am not present with him
R-More separateness between us

So now I am scanning for evidence of this. Scanning for ways that he loves me. Seems unbelievable to me right now.

So I am asking for a new thought please. Thank you!