I’m trying to simplify models to better understand how to write them effectively


I’m trying to simplify my models because I find I’m trying to get too much thought into them and then I’m getting off track.

C: my 48 year old sister is financially dependent on our parents
T: If it weren’t for her selfishness my parents would not be strapped for money in their retirement
E- angry
A: asked and discussed with my sister how she plans to survive when they are gone, upset my parents with my anger over my sister, push my sister away as she tries to have a relationship with me, anger and guilt over what my role will be in her life when they are gone
R- my parents are strapped for money and my sister still doesn’t try to better her life

C- my 48 year old sister is financially dependent on our parents
T- I have not control over my sister or my parents life long enabling of my her
F- acceptance
A- stop being angry, attempt to allow my sister to get closer to me, not project the future
R- I have not control over others and projecting the future does not serve me now

Thanks Brooke