I’m Very Intense

I was spending a long weekend with my friend and her best friend, whom I’d only met once in passing. After a day and a half the best friend turned to me and said, “You are very intense.” I’ve been in SCS for 11 months, so rather than taking offense, playing it over and over, and dulling down my personality the rest of the weekend (pre-SCS response), I looked directly at her and said “Yes, yes I am. People either love it or hate it.” We ended up having a great weekend, AND she asked “Have you ever thought of being a Life Coach?” LOL Learning the Model to look at Circumstances is such a game changer. Thank you Brooke. The amount of shit I would have created in my mind over this perceived “slight” would have been monumental.