Impossible Goal

Hi Brooke,

I need help sorting through which impossible goal to choose. The two I am deciding between are:

1) Get an amazing new job that recognizes my value and pays me accordingly
*This is actually a need because I was recently laid off and am now unemployed.
*This actually seems possible to me although I have never been unemployed before it is harder than I expected to remain optimistic and positive along the journey to this new job.

2) Find an amazing partner
*I’m single and would love to meet an amazing man.
*This goal does seem impossible to me! I have dated so much with little success.

Can you help? How do I choose between the two? I feel like I HAVE to focus on the job but that seems like I am choosing it from a pragmatic place which I think is maybe not the point of the exercise.

Thanks for you help!