Impossible Goal

I’ve been thinking about what I can choose for next month and the one that scares me the most is re-establishing an intimate physical relationship with my husband. I feel like this is dependent on his participation, though, so perhaps it’s not a good goal. I can only control myself; how he chooses to respond is up to him. Can you help me reframe this goal? Or, is it actually fine and I’m overthinking it? Thanks!