The last few coaching sessions have been a bit challenging around my impossible goal because it isn’t tied to revenue or weight loss . I work for a big company and in order to grow in my career I need to improve relationships, self confidence and my overall brand – basically what other people think of me . The only way I can think of to measure this is through a promotion or some other external validation . My fails are then tied to my urges, to not be reactive, my beliefs about myself and value and my self confidence. I am not sure if there is a better goal to have . I try to not get so attached to what other people think of me but in my type of work that is the thing that we are measure by ..