In other people’s models when I say "I am a Life Coach"


I need some help with my intentional model please.  I am not finding the thought that produces the feeling I want.

C: say the words “I am a Life Coach”
T: She thinks I look too young to be a life coach. She thinks coaching is a scam and not useful
F: insufficient
A: step out of the present moment. become a weirdo in conversation
R: Not be myself. I don’t show up as the Life Coach I am and am becoming

C: say the words “I am a Life Coach”
T: ?
F: certainty
A: enjoy more conversation with this person
R: Stay present. Be the Life Coach I am.