I just started scholars, so haven’t even tried a model yet. How do I deal with inconsistency with what my husband says and does? I’m clear that him being inconsistent with things that don’t affect me (him saying he wants to eat better, and then doesn’t, etc) are not my business. However, I don’t know what to do when we’ve had a number of conversations about something (our son watching a video that I don’t like him to watch ) and husband agrees that he will not let him watch that video, and then I find out that he did let him watch it. It makes me so pissed off. I don’t know what to do with the anger. I don’t know how to talk to him about it. Thanks.