Indecision


I really struggle with making decisions. I know that not deciding is by default deciding. We built a new home several years ago and have been living in it for the past year and a half. I/we have made SO many decisions already and there are so many more that need to be made to finish the house. My husband works full time but I do not work at this time. My only job is to finish the house. I feel so stuck because so much to do regarding completing the house I don’t even know where to begin. I work on a certain aspect of the house put in a lot of time, research, etc. and then a roadblock happens and I get frustrated and give up and move on to the next thing. So many incomplete things. All started but not completed, incomplete, empty house. Please help with my model. What thoughts can I have to help me out of this rut. Thank you

C – Not deciding
T – I have so much to do, so many decisions that I need to make, I don’t even know where to begin
F – Overwhelmed, stuck, anxious
A – Inaction, buffering, procrastination, avoidance
R – Nothing getting done