Infidelity 1

I’m new to SCS and still learning how to use the Model; please help.  On March 8th, I found out the circumstances below.  I know living in the past causes me to suffer and I do not want to torture myself with my thoughts.  I’m having a hard time working through this. We have decided to stay married. I need help managing my thoughts, completing these models, and writing intentional models.  Thank you

C: My husband had sex with another woman
T: He broke our marriage vows
F: Heartsick
A: Close myself off emotionally from him
R: ?

C: My husband gave me an STD
T: I don’t trust him
F: Angry
A: Be suspicious of him, judge him, not do anything to help our relationship
R: ?