Intentional Model on work


C: patient doesn’t want to work with me, she is now working with another therapist
T: She wants me to fix her, I can’t
F: rejection
A: Spin on what I did wrong, ruminate
R: questioning my career

C:same
T: what did I do wrong
F: upset
A: eat
R: don’t feel well
Intentional Model: I’m having trouble with an intentional model. Maybe I need to sit with these thoughts and feelings for a bit? I’m having trouble with this and in my career… this feeling of pressure and expectation to fix when I can’t fix anyone. Patients will say to me, “you need to fix me” I’m not sure how to handle this…all I say is I can’t fix them. I’m here to guide and coach them, support them through their experience. any thoughts would be great.