Is feeling "used" a form of victimization?

Hi Brooke,

Is feeling “used” an indulgent thought? I’m learning a lot about myself from this month’s Scholars theme and realize I often feel this way because I tend to work around my families needs and put those above mine. I’ve always thought this is just what a “good mom” or what a “good family member does” which is true in some cases… but overall this isn’t serving me anymore. All it gets me is feeling like a door mat. Is this an indulgent thought?