Is it what I want?

I am often wondering but can’t com me to the answer, even when I coach myself, whether what I want is really what I want. I want to be successful in terms of finances, travel, be able to afford anything, create the schedule I want, work few hours a week, have plenty of free time, but is that what I really want? Or, am I just following the dreams that society teach us to follow? What questions I can ask myself and what thoughts can I think to find the answer?