Is My Circumstance Neutral ?

My husband five months repeatedly and engages with his ex-wife who left him and he’s made his life miserable she put me down and I was there conversations and he’s a pedophile does not stand up for me. So I’m trying to work on my phone. I know I don’t need him to be their friends to block him more I need to lock in the rate he ate. So in the unintentional model in the C lime… Bob engages and confides in his ex-wife when she badmouths me. Is this neutral? If not what would be neutral ? Thank you!