Judgement /patience

As part of self development I want to tolerate others opinions in nonjudgmental way and develop patience . C: group meetings and various opinions T: why don’t these people get it. Please get to the point- I need to go home /kids are waitingF- frustrated A- not so pleasant sounding opinion R: not happy after the fact. Intentional model: c: meetings/ opinionsT: people are entitled to their own opinion f-in control of my own emotions A- peaceful after meeting feeling. Please give input as this process is new to me