What do I do when my friends continue to invite my ex to groups/ intimate events/ settings? They know I feel uncomfortable when my ex is around. I’m not telling them to stop being friends with her, I just ask of them to let me know ahead of time if she is invited and I can decide to go or not depending on what kind of environment it is. And when I decide not to go, they make me feel bad by telling me to get over it and it’s annoying that they have to let me know ahead of time. Also, they get mad at me for not showing up. What do I do?