Keeping score // Alternative thoughts


In my relationship with my husband, and specifically with regards to childcare arrangements (and how much I watch the kids versus him), I find myself keeping score in my head and this keeps me in a tense, scarcity mindset. This keeping score thing has been with me as long as I can remember (I grew up with an older sister and kept score big time) so it feels deeply entrenched and I’m playing with alternative thoughts to loosen its grip.

Here’s what I’ve come up with:
– I’m letting go of the score-keeping
– I’m not someone who keeps score
– The Universe will make things even in the end
– I give my time and love from a place of abundance
– *I* make it worth my while
– I bring lightness and joy to every arrangement

Do you have any other suggestion to offer? Thank you!