I don’t want to snap at my kids and “scream” at them as much as I do.

I’m uncertain about the T/R in the intentional one.

C: Kids play
T: this noise will drive me crazy
F: irritated
A: I snap at kids, act grumpy and discontent
R: I let the noise drive me crazy

C: kids play
T: Some noise won’t kill me
F: Neutral (or at least calmer)
A: I reply to them with calm and understanding
R: I don’t contribute to the loud noise