Kids Not Grateful

I have this model from a recent long weekend we took our kids on.

C-Kids don’t say thank-you while on trip
T- They are ungrateful and spoiled
F- Anger
A-Tell them they are ungrateful; yell at them about how they should use their manners; tell them they are spoiled; don’t do fun things with them; take away screens; spin in my head about more punishment
R-I am ungrateful for my behavior? I miss out on doing things with them?

I’m not sure this result matches up with the model. Also, I’m struggling to find some other thoughts for this C. Please help! Thank you.