Lack of Dating Options

I have a very specific belief (that seems to have evidence) that I don’t have a lot of dating options as a woman of color in America. It feels like I’ve been overlooked by men as a “suitable” partner because of the color of my skin. I’ve done a lot of personal development work around relationships. When I started this journey, I thought that was the missing piece and I’d finally meet my soulmate! So I dived into private and group coaching and programs. I’ve put myself out there online and in real life. Although I’ve dated men over the years, most haven’t been a match in terms of our faith or our lifestyle or values. Other women I’ve been in programs with are going on 3-4 dates a day, getting wined and dined, getting flowers, etc. I turned 40 last year and I feel like time is running out for me to meet the right man and have a family. I haven’t lost hope, which is why I’m here. I’d love to learn how to use this model to coach myself through these beliefs. Although these beliefs feel very true, I’m willing to see this differently and change my results. Thank you.