Leaving my spa to move back to Michigan to become a Life Coach.

I own a spa in the Pocono Mountains, Pennsylvania the past 17 years. In 2018 my husband was transferred to Ann Arbor, Michigan and we bought a house and sort of relocated. Well, my husband has moved into our home full time, but I’m still driving back and forth from Pennsylvania to Michigan every month since we bought our home. Yes, I am growing very tired of driving, but the reason I am scared of leaving my office full time is identity issues. I feed off the spa for Life Coaching clients. It’s mine, I built it, my husband doesn’t give me money! Basically, I’m really scared to leave what I have known for 17 years. How do I deal with this change and just trust all will be OK?