Lesson to my son or lesson to myself

While playing with my son, there was a moment where he completely refused to understand and I snubbed at him…..from here the real story starts

C: Snubbed at my son
T: He must have felt bad
F: Guilt
A: Try to make it up by being extra nice
R:I made him feel bad

C: Same
T: How can I communicate better
F: Empowered
A: Being more mindful of how I speak
R: I communicate my emotions better