Letting people be wrong about me!

A very good friend just had a baby.
I myself don’t want kids and so, I’m not looking to hold/take care of another baby 🙂
She just shared (not at me, in general) that a good friend should offer to help when you just had a baby, they should bring food, wanting to hold the baby, etc.
I love my reasons for not doing any of it, but I don’t want her to be wrong about me 🙁 I’m a great friend 🙂 but I just don’t want to do any of this.
Is there any way I can modify her thoughts so I can feel better? 😉

Thank you so much for your help!!!