Liking your reasons


I’ve been thinking about leaving my marriage. I like my reason for staying. There’s financial stability and he’s a good person. l like my reason for leaving. It would allow me to one day be with someone I’m physically attracted to and have passion for. I’ve never had either with my husband.

How do you proceed with a decision when you know either decision will be fine and you like your reasons for either decision?

For something so life altering like ending a marriage, it seems like just choosing is too simple. I will always “just choose” to stay even though there is a part that wants to go.