C: Guy friend (that I told that I liked) hasn’t reached out to me in 3 1/2 weeks (we have been talking on and off for a year now)

T: He doesn’t care

F: Sad

A: Ignore feelings of sadness, and don’t reach out as much as I would like to

R: I don’t care ?

I feel stuck not knowing what to do or how to feel. Part of me thinks- we are young, be patient, keep going after what you want. But the other part of me is like I’m not on his mind, he doesn’t care, I’m wasting my time on a guy who lives in another state (my love language is quality time), I don’t wanna ignore the signs and set myself up for rejection.