Losing Weight Resistance

Can you coach me on this Model please?

C: Fiancé said, “I’m not sure I’d be upset if I wanted to lose weight and you wanted me to lose weight too”
T: If he loved me, he wouldn’t want me to lose weight
F: Resistant
A: Rebel. Don’t do anything he wants me to do just because he wants me to do it. Don’t exercise. Buffer with food. Hide my overeating from him. Criticize myself. Disconnect.
R: I don’t love any of us?