What advice would my future self give to me about listening to the Chad complain (hubby). My future self recognizes that our time together is finite and that I should be grateful for anytime we have, because you never know what the future may bring.
My future self would tell me that:
I would want to be present for every moment, I would be thankful and grateful that Chad was here with me. I would not care at all about the complaining. I would just love him. I would cherish him and every minute. That is what I want to do now, just love him, love him unconditionally. Show up as a spouse I am proud to be. Support him in his journey and be present however he needs me. I want to manage my thoughts so all I feel for him is love and support. Future me would say, it’s all good, love all of Chad, be the best spouse you can be and leave the rest.