Loving/accepting myself and wanting more

Hello. There is something I can’t quite manage to get my head around. If I want to improve the way I think, act, look, does that mean I don’t love and accept myself the way I am? If I want to lose weight or put make up on, does that mean that I don’t really accept the way I look right now? If I want to develop my ability to feel brave or confident, does that mean that I don’t really love myself unconditionally right now? If I loved myself unconditionally now I wouldn’t feel the need to be or look better? Thanks for your help.