Loving someone?

Hi coach !
I’m having a lot of fights with my boyfriend at the moment and I’m a bit lost about what to think … I explained a bit to two of my girlfriends separately because I wanted to see their opinion and they both asked me “but do you even love the guy?” And now I’m feeling a bit lost: Do I even love the guy? How am I supposed to know this? Can you please advise? Thanks 🙏