Lunch with colleagues


Hi Coach,

I need some help with creating an Intentional Model in this situation, please.

My current Model is this:

C My colleagues decided not to go to lunch at the time we agreed on
T My colleagues don’t want to have lunch with me
F Resentful
A I have lunch alone. Ruminate. I don’t invite them to go lunch again
R I don’t want to have lunch with my colleagues anymore

I clearly see how my thoughts are creating my Results. The issue is that I don’t know if I want to change that R-line, i.e. invite them again to have lunch together. I do think that some of them don’t want to have lunch with me, so I prefer that we have lunch separately. However, I also see that I’m not coming from a place of love/peace and that’s not how I want to feel.