How do you make choices if you know that no matter what you can be happy with that choice. If our actions are motivated because we want to feel a certain way, I do not fully understand how we make decisions once we know we can feel however we want to no matter what we choose to do. For example, if I can be happy married or unmarried why would I ever choose one over the other? Is it because one situation may take less thought work to be happy? What other reasons could there be?