Male attention and body confidence

Through doing the work I have started to build my confidence in so many areas of my life. My main focus started out on my career confidence but as i did the work i realized I needed to work on me. I have been building and realize that I have a long way to go.

Lately, I have been recieving lots of extra male attention when I am traveling and at work conferences. I get some pretty crazy comments and i mainly shrug them off. Sometimes I endulge and ask questions – why? Explain? Tell me more. Letting my ego take over. The extra attention is nice and flattering but at the end of the day I know I don’t need their validation to feel sexy/beautiful and awesome. I want to stand in my own worth. I sometimes feel shame afterwards for indulging in this banter. And frustrated with myself for not believing that I could be the pretty lady in the room. Can you help me with a model to counter my belief that I am not worthy – that I do have awesome cobfidene – and do not need the valudation. Some help brrakung this diwn woukd be great. Thanks!