I take a lot of models on my mother and don’t came to an end. She was 35 years marriaged with an narcissistic men (my father) And now their marriage came to an end. He manipulate their split in so many ways and it’s a hard time for her.

But every time I act in the same way… I act to compensate my dads behavior.

C – dad is acting in a narcissistic way, she call me…

T – she is feeling bad
F – sad
A – Im doing all she’s asking for

I know that I couldn’t change her thoughts or feelings. But I even act this way – don’t know why – no matter how often I tell my self this in my intensional model. Why and what could I do?