Manual Vs. What I Want For Myself

I’ve been dating a guy for about three months. We have a lot of fun when we are together. I would like to spend more time together. He has lots of hobbies and interests that take up a lot of his time. I know wanting or expecting him to initiate spending more time together is a manual. But is it a manual to want to be with someone who wants to spend more time with me? If I’m not expecting him to change, I don’t know it’s better to end things now and try to find someone who is a match for what I’m looking for.