March homework – the thought

Hello Brooke, I’m thinking about the new believe I want to create for myself. I’m a people pleaser… and I’ve started to realize it is not serving myself or other people. Would my new belief go from: ‘I’m a people pleaser’ to ‘I am only responsible for my own happiness’? It feels selfish, especially towards my 4 year old son and my husband. How to work around this confusion?