Mind not caught up with external world

Is it possible our brain cannot be caught up with the reality of our external world? Externally, I have created almost everything I’ve ever wanted. I have my dream car, house, wardrobe, family, trips, work, etc. my bank account is a little lower than I want, but I know in a year it will be back up.

If I were to write everything external on paper it is seriously my dream. However, my brain is still in the “I need to work, I’m fat, I should have more money, I wish this/that etc”. I don’t believe these things. I just notice they are my old patterns.

Is there anyway to get my mindset caught up to reality? I’m thinking I’d like to believe “This is amazing, this is my dream come true, I am so proud of what we have created. Etc.”