Model check


I’d just like to check if this model is ok?

Unintentional
C – Boyfriend owes me $1000
T – Why can’t he just pay me back
F – Frustration
A – Internalises frustration to avoid argument over money
R – No connection

Intentional
C – Boyfriend owes me $1000
T – It makes him feel anxious to pay me back
F – Understanding
A – Work out a plan that works for everyone for how to make this happen.
R – I will get my money back and we can remain in a connected relationship.